“Excuse me” is a phrase that can be used in various situations with various meanings. Learn the different ways to use it, and learn how to say this phrase comfortably in conversational English: what words or syllables to reduce, how to link everything together, and the melodic shape of the phrase.
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In this American English pronunciation video, we’re going to go over how to pronounce and use the phrase ‘excuse me’.
The phrase ‘excuse me’ can be used in different situations to mean different things. But first, let’s talk about the pronunciation of the word ‘excuse’. I’m going to say it two different ways. Can you hear the difference? Excuse, excuse. Excuse, excuse. It’s a subtle difference, and it’s in the ending sound. If the ending sound is voiced, in this case, a Z sound, excuse, then it’s a verb. If it’s unvoiced, excuse, then it’s a noun.
It’s a verb in the phrase ‘excuse me’. So, for the most part, we will be using a Z sound.
The different ways to use this phrase. First, you can use it to get someone’s attention.
>> Excuse me, where’s the bathroom?
>> Around the corner.
>> Around the corner.
>> Excuse me, do you have the time?
>> Ah, it’s about 9:15.
>> Thank you sir.
>> You’re welcome.
>> Ah, it’s about 9:15.
>> Thank you sir.
>> You’re welcome.
Because we’re using it to get someone’s attention, excuse me, it has to be very clear and a little bit louder. So, we begin with the IH as in SIT vowel. Ih, ih, ih, a little jaw drop. Ex-, ex-, ex-.
To make the K, the back part of the tongue reaches up and touches the soft palate. Ex-, kk, kk, ks, ks. Do you see how my jaw closes? That’s because the teeth have to be together to make the S. The tongue tip is down, pressing here, to put a little tension in the tongue, behind the bottom front teeth. Ex-, ex-.
The back part of the tongue reaches up and touches the soft palate, kk, kk, kk.
da-DA-da, excuse me. It has the EW as in FEW diphthong. So, the tongue tip is down, pressing behind the bottom front teeth. For the first half of the diphthong, the front part of the tongue is reaching towards the roof of the mouth, yy, yy, to make that Y sound. Excu-, yy, yy, yy. Then we have the OO vowel, excu-, so the lips will round. Excuse me, -se me, -se me. Then we have the Z sound, the M consonant, and the EE vowel. So, so make the Z sound, the tongue is here, touching the back of the bottom front teeth, and the teeth are closed, zz, zz. It’s just like the S except I’m vibrating the vocal cords with my voice, zz. ZZ-mm. Then we just close the lips to go into the M sound. Excuse me, ee. And then the EE as in SHE vowel. Lips will part, jaw won’t drop much because the tongue is lifting pretty high to the roof of the mouth. The tongue tip is down, but the front part lifts. Excuse me, excuse me.
Let’s watch one more time.
>> Excuse me, where’s the bathroom?
>> Around the corner.
>> Around the corner.
>> Excuse me, do you have the time?
>> Ah, it’s about 9:15.
>> Thank you sir.
>> You’re welcome.
>> Ah, it’s about 9:15.
>> Thank you sir.
>> You’re welcome.
We also use this phrase to get around somebody, or if we accidentally bump into somebody in a crowd. Now here, we don’t really need to get someone’s attention, so we might really mutter it, excuse me, ‘scuse me, ‘scuse me, dropping the first syllable altogether. I’ve noticed sometimes I even almost just whisper it if I accidentally bump into somebody, or if I need to slide between two people, ‘scuse me [3x]. So this is very different from the first case where we needed to get someone’s attention, and we had to say it really clearly. Excuse me, ‘scuse me, ‘scuse me.
>> ‘Scuse me, ‘scuse me.
>> ‘Scuse me, ‘scuse me, thank you. ‘Scuse me.
>> ‘Scuse me, ‘scuse me, thank you. ‘Scuse me.
We can also use this phrase if we don’t understand, we need somebody to repeat what they’ve said. Excuse me? Excuse me? Here again I’m dropping the first syllable. You don’t have to. Excuse me? But it doesn’t have to be so clearly pronounced because we’re not getting someone’s attention. We don’t have to get the focus here, we already have the focus. Excuse me, excuse me? Notice also, the voice is going up in pitch. That means it’s a question. That’s the signal to the person that I didn’t understand. Excuse me?
>> So I don’t know what I’m going to get.
>> Excuse me?
>> I don’t know what I’m going to get.
>> Ah.
>> Excuse me?
>> I don’t know what I’m going to get.
>> Ah.
>> How about three?
>> Excuse me?
>> How about three?
>> Yeah, three works.
>> Okay.
>> Excuse me?
>> How about three?
>> Yeah, three works.
>> Okay.
>> Excuse me? [6x]
It’s just like saying ‘What did you say?’, only it’s a little faster. Excuse me, excuse me?
This phrase can also be used sarcastically, as a response to somebody overreacting to something. For example, ‘Rachel, you always make a mess in the kitchen.’ ‘Excuse me.’ Now, when we use it sarcastically like that, we tend to really stretch out the stressed syllable, excuse, excuse. Well excuse me. Of course, it’s a little bit rude, you would be using this, maybe, in an argument with somebody.
>> Dad, I can’t believe you ate the last cookie!
>> Well excuse me!
>> Well excuse me!
So there you go, four different ways to use and pronounce the phrase excuse me. So the pronunciation matters. Are we trying to get somebody’s attention? Then we need to be really clear. Are we signaling that we don’t understand? Then we need to phrase it as a question with the pitch going up. Excuse me? Instead of, excuse me.
>> [burp] Excuse me!
>> Hi.
>> Hi.
>> Hi.
>> Hi.
I hope this video has helped you figure out how and when to use this phrase. Don’t forget to like and share this video!
That’s it, and thanks so much for using Rachel’s English.
>> Did you touch your mic? You can’t touch it.
>> Well excuse me!!
>> Well excuse me!!
